I looked at how my father loved my mother. I looked at how A loved A. I looked at him and how he was treating me.
Is this the kind of love that I want? No. Because it is not love.
More than how a person looks like, what’s important is how he treats you. More than looks is the heart–for you. They may be the most good-looking person on earth but if they would not treat you right then don’t settle for less than you deserve.
I am reminded of this verse as I think about these things: Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is noble, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is admirable–if anything is excellent or praiseworthy–think about such things. (Philippians 4:8)
